Once you have past the threshold in life of worrying about "what's in this for me?" and just doing the right thing, you can see so much to appreciate and love about others that pretty soon just one stands out of the crowd. They won't be tooting their own horn or saying "pick me because". They will be humble about who they are and teach you about how they appreciate things in life including other people. You will share yourselves on a level that neither of you have before. Knowing somehow that it will be okay no matter what it is you share. In that sharing you will become closer and closer, the issues that have been judged harshly in the past will bring the most joy, appreciation and love of that person that just "gets you" like no one ever has before. You'll love them like you've never loved anyone before. Things will just mushroom from there like each one of you is feeding off of the other, reaching nuclear levels. You can't wait to be together at the end of each work day. You rush home because you want to experience more of this amazing partner you've found. There is a new calm during your rush home that you've never had before, because you know, you just know somehow that it will be this way forever. You have the love, understanding, communication, realistic expectations and last but not least trust, that you've always desired. There is no end to this story, because a story like this will go on for all of eternity!
Ever hear any of the following...."it's not me it's you" "it's not you it's me" "get out!" Etc. ? This is a buffet of case by case ideas on your relationship issues. In other words, ask your questions, write to me with your situations and I'll give you my opinion and you can take what you want and leave the rest. Just like a buffet!
Tuesday, November 24, 2015
Real Love Stories........
Real Love Stories have no endings. The individuals just keep on loving each other through anything that comes their way. Because in a real love story it's about loving each other without any expectation in return. Yes, that's right it's an unconditional love. Now you're probably thinking that doesn't exist in any relationship. I get how you might think that. However, "real love stories" do exist. You can't explain it any other way but to recognize that it has to exist. It's not really that hard to imagine, it's simple really. It may not be easy but it is simple. Each individual has to know themselves enough to be comfortable with "who" they are. Then they can appreciate so much more out of life. They can actually know things that no one else knows. They can experience pleasures that no one else can because they have no filter telling them that they can't. Or that this action means that in 5 years, 3 months, 21 days, 4 hours, 43 minutes and 20 seconds this will happen, and it will have to be a deal breaker. All because a guy that was once dating your twice removed cousin's hairdresser said one of his clients was in this "situation" one time. The past, your past or someone else's, doesn't predict anyone's future experience. Everyone will be happier if they learn from the past, but not hold on to it. Enjoy the present, by being present. Not worrying about the past. And lastly, not trying to predict the future, especially with the past. I have to wonder if the "present" is the named that because it's so rarely enjoyed by the masses, that to fully experience it is like a gift.
Sunday, January 4, 2015
Nice read.....everyone can learn from this
Eight marriage killing mistakes women make. Click here to read.
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